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In a past life…

August 26, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I distinctly remember back to my freshman year of college when one of professors used the expression “in a past life.” She was telling a story involving her days as a young telephone operator. I understood what she meant – how the years of experience and change had divided her life  into distinct eras. But I had yet to experience the same for myself.

The expression stayed with me. Crossed my mind from time to time. Today, 12 years later, I have come to fully realize it’s meaning first-hand.

In a past life I worked in a daycare, with a first grade class that I loved.

In a past life I was in another relationship, and envisioned a different future.

In a past life I planned to be a veterinarian who specialized in large animals.

In a past life I took karate and might have been able to round-house kick you in the face.

In a past life I was a smoker, first Marlboro Lights, then Parliament Lights.

In a past life I was a college freshman, having the time of my life.

etc. etc.

Those who know me know I like to reminisce. I enjoy the thought of life eras. But in a way, I think my viewpoint of this notion is quite different than my professor’s. It seemed she very much divided her current self from those past eras. As if those memories of herself could have belong to someone else’s life. My eras are very much my own. They all have made me the person I am today. Instead of isolating my current era from those of the past, I embrace them, call upon them for reference, and continue to learn from my previous self.

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A poster child for the uninsured‏.

August 22, 2009 · 7 Comments

I have been living without health insurance for 2 1/2 years. This is not bait for sympathy, nor do I feel underprivileged. Early in 2007 I was accepted to graduate school here in Chicago. I decided to leave my career of five years, cash in my 401k, move away from Minnesota and make a life change. I knew it was going to be tough to manage making rent, tuition, buying groceries and paying the usual adult bills I had accumulated – credit cards, phone/internet, electric, etc. Luckily I did quality for some student loans and managed to juggle a couple part time jobs along the way. My fiance also sold his Harley, which helped A LOT. I feel extremely privileged and accomplished having completed my MA in two years, as it had been a lifelong goal.

To put it simply, I couldn’t afford the $300/mo single adult, full time student health coverage (and I shopped around). I made the choice to purchase groceries and transportation instead of health care. It was a conscious choice I made to live more comfortably and pay out of pocket for my annual doctor’s exam and birth control. Luckily I have not experienced any major illnesses or accidents (knock on wood).

But does it really have to be like this? Do people really have to make the choice between putting food on the table and visiting the doctor? This is the reality for me and 46 million Americans. That’s 15 percent of the U.S. population. In my opinion, this is sad, and above all, irresponsible – especially if we want to continue being the richest, most productive cutting edge nation in the world.

NPR put together an amazing piece profiling who an uninsured person is in America. Much of the statistical data comes a report by the Kaiser Family Foundation, a non-profit, nonpartisan health policy research organization. It says 40 percent of the uninsured are between the ages of 19 and 29. I just turned 30.

Since graduating in May I have been on the job hunt. I’m currently in a temporary full time position with a publication I’ve held a part time job with for about one year. However, my position is only guaranteed through the end of 2009. And because I’m temporary they do not offer me health insurance. I still cannot afford to buy it on my own.

Here are the facts:
- I have literally held a job (full time or part time… (for five years both a full time and part time job)) since I was 15 years old.
- I have contributed my fair share of taxes (currently living in the highest taxed city in the nation).
- Breast cancer runs in my family.
- I’d love to have children in someday soon.
- I come from a stable middle-class family.
- I have pursued efforts to better myself and the world around me.
- I hold a master’s degree.
- I am 30 years old.
- I do not have health insurance.

One of the arguments waged against a public option health care plan is that health care is not a constitutional right, as free speech (my favorite) or bearing arms. To that argument, let me ask this: Is education a constitutional right? Or should be close all public schools? What about police and fire departments? Maybe we could close those too? Doesn’t the lead of the Constitution speak directly to this topic?

We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.

Such opponents wouldn’t dare argue with providing for the common defense… by why is promoting the general welfare so controversial, or unresolved in people’s minds? Health care is a necessary tool, key for modern day survival.

There are those in the world who do not see the ties that bind us all together. We are standing at a crossroads. Do we continue with the status quo, or do we take a leap and try something that may improve the quality of life for millions? In policy, there always needs to be compromise. Take a look at the options on the table. There is a fear that public health care could mean fewer dollars for medial technology. But what good is having the best technology in the world when it is inaccessible to those who need it?

Let’s step away from political leanings and just think about the morals of this situation. How could anyone tell a young person, a poor person or someone recently laid off that they do not have the right to access health care? This is the United States! How can someone like that live with themselves?  How long are we going to let the greedy drug companies and insurance companies rule our lives? This quite literally defines our future. Which side of history do you want to be on?

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Big News!

August 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Today, I upgraded from this tacky mug that I dug out from the depths of the community kitchen cupboard at my office…

ugly mug

To this gem!

daily show mug

How much does that rock? Maybe now Jon Stewart will agree to an interview with me.

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Media again chooses to cover ‘pantsuit’ over issue of substance.

August 16, 2009 · Leave a Comment

At first I simply brushed off last week’s news of Hillary Clinton’s supposed “meltdown” during her stop in the Democratic Republic of Congo as another attempt of media over exaggeration in return for page views. But the nasty headlines kept coming, and the bad cable news commentators kept talking, but no one was saying anything of substance. The pantsuits; again with the pantsuits.

My dear friend Meg White, a Chicago-based reporter, summed up my sentiments exactly in her BuzzFlash post. Not only does Clinton get the usual sexist treatment by the media (Sorry, Jon Stewart. I love ya, but I gotta disagree with you on this one), but if you watch the video, the headlines that followed the Q&A incident completely differ from the tone in the room. The audience seems in support of Clinton’s response to the question.

As Meg points out in her story: “Indeed, the saddest part of this treatment is what the story coming out of Clinton’s visit to the DRC should be, but isn’t. On her way there she seemed eager to bring attention to the widespread culture of sexual violence that flourishes in Eastern Congo.”

Hillary Clinton purchases goods from local merchants in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Photo Credit: REUTERS

Secretary of State Hillary Clinton purchases goods from local merchants in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Photo Credit: REUTERS

The whole thing seems to drive the sexism reality home – the fact that one of Clinton’s goals was call out and denounce the systematic rape of women and burning of villages filled with women and children amid the conflict between the United Nations-backed Congolese army and the Hutu rebel Democratic Forces for the Liberation of Rwanda (as well as the Ugandan rebel force), and all the mainstream Western media can focus on is how she sharply put an end to an inappropriate question (even if supposedly misspoken or mistranslatedor not). Because the rape of women isn’t as fun to report on as a bitchy woman is, huh?

To learn more about Clinton’s DRC visit, check out the videos on the State Department’s site.

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Do you know what’s hilarious?

August 11, 2009 · Leave a Comment

This…

Kathy Griffin and Levi Johnston

Kathy Griffin and Levi Johnston before their Teen Choice Awards date.

I love you, Kathy.

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Public Restroom Etiquette‏

August 11, 2009 · Leave a Comment

In my opinion (and this is my blog, so it’s about time I start stating my opinion), there are certain cardinal rules one must follow in a public restroom.

1.) If there is a row of empty stalls, do not, I repeat, do not take the one directly next to the only other person using the restroom at the time. Give a girl some room. It’s one thing if the place is busy, then all stalls are fair game. But if there are a dozen stalls and only one being used, don’t take the stall right next to it.

publicRestroomVanity2.) Wash your hands. At home this rule might slide. I don’t care what you do in your home. But in public, I don’t want to think about touching the same door handle as you, or shaking your hand after you wiped your ass. ESPECIALLY at work. You work someplace long enough, and you’re a non-hand-washer, someone like me is going to figure it out when we’re in the bathroom together at some point. I’m so OCD about this rule that I actually make mental notes of who washes their hands and who doesn’t. Yeah, I know who you are. I can’t help it. It’s not like I want to take these mental notes. As a matter of fact, I shouldn’t have to because we’re all adults and we’ve all learned how to stay clean, avoid the spread of germs, etc. So, just wash your hands. Just do it. It takes 15 flippin’ seconds.

3.)If someone is takin’ a poop, don’t hang out in the bathroom and chat with your friends. You smell the smell, it’s time to walk outside. Which brings me to rule No. 4…

4.) To all my between-stall talking friends: Let’s continue the conversation after we do our business. However, when I’m drinking I habitually break this rule. OK, I’m re-designating this as a sober-only rule.

5.) Flush. For the love of God.

Categories: Bazaar-o · For the Funnies · Life and its Circles
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A night at the movies.

August 10, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I have a two-sided movie-watching personality. At home, it takes a feat of mammoth proportions to get me to stay awake during a two-hour film. If I don’t pass out 30 minutes-in, then I’m up and down off the couch multitasking the night away. Case-in-point: Finally Netflixed Memoirs of a Geisha and popped it in last night. A few minutes in and I was setting up for an art project. I didn’t end up asleep, but I did get several picture frames refurbed and painted. Several weeks ago, I could not finish Pan’s Labyrinth for the life of me – and I actually wanted to see that movie.

It’s not like I’ve always had this problem. Maybe the increased influence of snippet-sized information has rotted my brain away into status update-only capacity. All the Twitter, YouTube and Facebook time has finally caught up with me. God, I hope that’s not the case.

It’s not the case. It can’t be. At the theatre I’m a totally different person. I love movies at the theatre. Not an itch of sleep creeps into my eyes. It’s like at the theatre I’m sweet Dr. Jekyll, but at home I’m the evil Mr. Hyde movie-watcher who can’t pay attention.

Does a movie have to play on a very large screen to keep me entertained? If that’s the case, maybe JH and I should invest in a giant flat-screen. He’d love that. Maybe it’s the fact that I can’t put my head down on one of my fluffy couch pillows, or don’t have distractions of the computer, phone, and household projects.

Meryl as JuliaAnyway, this weekend I saw Julie & Julia – and guess what… I liked it! (Big surprise considering it was on the big screen.) I ended up going with several girl friends for a birthday party. The birthday girl is an amazing cook (aspiring writer, night-time foodie – that kinda thing) so this movie was right up her alley. In Julia Good Life Yes Final_2honor of her b-day and the movie, she cooked us up an amazing chicken dish right out of Julia Child’s cookbook! Bon Appetit, for sure! Me, on the other hand,  I do well if I don’t burn simple chicken breasts or overcook pasta. Just as Julia (Meryl Streep) says in the movie – I’m good at eating food. But unlike Julia, that’s all I’m good at in that realm.

Two ingredients that I should have foreseen liking in this movie:  A poor wannabe writer forced to work day job while looking for inspiration… yes, can relate. And Julia Child, a person I’ve long admired.

I remember watching Child’s cooking show on TV when I was a kid. At a very young age I found her utterly captivating. Meryl Streep did an amazing performance. Long ago she entered my top five favorite female actors list. She brought the Julia Child alive I so dearly remembered from my youth.

I do have a few criticisms, however. First off, what was with the ending? Yeah. Second, what exactly did Julia Child say about Julie’s blog? It was so vague that I was a little perturbed they even put it in the movie. Maybe it explains it in the book??? Not trying to give anything away here – just had to mention a few little annoyances.

Overall: cute movie; fun night at the theatre; unfun self analyzing over at-home attention span; I didn’t stuff my face with popcorn.

Maybe that last point is a bad thing.

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